Sacrifice Brings Heaven’s Blessings

Two years ago, we had the opportunity to go to Martin’s Cove and the historical sites in Wyoming and Utah that were significant along the Mormon Pioneer Trail. It was a life changing experience for me! It was a long trip, even in an air-conditioned, comfortable car! We hiked through several of the areas, drove to others, ate at restaurants and slept in nice, comfortable hotel rooms. They were exhausting, adventure-filled days. They were also days filled with of feelings of overwhelming sacredness.  It was incredible to walk some of the places the pioneers had walked, to read their testimonies and to hear their stories, some even about my own ancestors. Without actually walking the trails and seeing the difficult conditions (and I saw it on a beautiful summer day), it is nearly impossible to even imagine what the early Mormon pioneers went through to get to the Salt Lake Valley. So even though I have gained an appreciation, it is nowhere near an understanding!  

A very sacred experience happened when we went to Church there on Sunday. My husband and son were asked to bless the sacrament. Words are inadequate to express my feelings. As I listened to the words of each prayer, tears rolled down my cheeks. I found a deeper meaning to those words as I listened to them that day and thought how the pioneers must have heard those same words on that same spot so many years ago. As we take the sacrament, we promise to take upon ourselves the name of Jesus Christ and always remember Him, and keep His commandments so that we can have His Spirit to be with us. That day I thought of all that the pioneers had endured because they had truly taken His name upon them and remembered Him and kept His commandments. And it was because they had His Spirit with them that they had been able to endure all they had been through and could continue to endure all that was still ahead. I thought of their sacrifice and their devotion. I remember wondering if the way I was living my life was evidence that I truly appreciated that sacrifice and devotion. Would they be as proud to be my relative as I was to be theirs? Am I as willing to take the Savior’s name and always remember Him and keep His commandments as they were? Do I allow His Spirit to guide me and sustain me like they did?

There are so many lessons we can learn from the pioneers! They knew sacrifice! They also knew that they would be blessed for their sacrifice. There are incredible stories that tell of the miracles. I believe that, while they too experienced heaven’s blessings, their sacrifices have brought us heaven’s blessings! I have heard stories about the pioneers all my life. However, I didn’t understand or appreciate what they went through – for us – before I went to Martin’s Cove. The things I heard, saw and felt have deepened my faith and filled my heart with gratitude for the blessings I have because of the sacrifices of others. I am so grateful for that experience. I love the story below about Francis Webster.  It had such a profound impact on me when I first heard it! And it still does. It is a sweet reminder to me that those times which are the hardest to bear are never really borne alone! If we put our trust in our Heavenly Father, those will be the refining times when we are being molded into the person He wants us to become. 

In 1856, Francis and Betsy Webster had enough money to travel to Utah in a wagon, but they donated their money to the Perpetual Emigrating Fund. Their donation allowed an additional nine individuals to travel by handcart. Brother and Sister Webster, who were expecting a baby, traveled to Salt Lake City with the Martin handcart company and suffered along with the rest of the company.

Years later, as Brother Webster sat in a Sunday School class, he listened to some Church members criticize Church leaders for the handcart tragedy. Unable to constrain himself, he arose and testified of the blessings of being in the Martin handcart company:

“I ask you to stop this criticism for you are discussing a matter you know nothing about. Cold historic facts mean nothing here for they give no proper interpretation of the questions involved. Mistake to send the handcart company out so late in the season? Yes. But I was in that company and my wife was in it. … We suffered beyond anything you can imagine and many died of exposure and starvation. But did you ever hear a survivor of that company utter a word of criticism? … Everyone of us came through with the absolute knowledge that God lives for we became acquainted with him in our extremities [extreme needs].

“I have pulled my handcart when I was so weak and weary from illness and lack of food that I could hardly put one foot ahead of the other. I have looked ahead and seen a patch of sand or a hill slope and I said I can go only that far and there I must give up for I cannot pull my load through it. I have gone on to that sand and when I reached it, the cart began pushing me. I have looked back many times to see who was pushing my cart but my eyes saw no one. I knew then that the angels of God were there.

“Was I sorry that I chose to come by handcart? No. Neither then nor one moment of my life since. The price we paid to become acquainted with God was a privilege to pay and I am thankful that I was privileged to come to Zion in the Martin Handcart Company” (in William R. Palmer, “Pioneers of Southern Utah,” The Instructor, May 1944, 217–18).

The second quote comes from Dieter F. Uchtdorf’s First Presidency message, All is Well, in this month’s Ensign. It is a great reminder of the optimism that the pioneers exhibited. The title of President Uchtdorf’s article comes from the song “Come, Come, Ye Saints.” I love the second verse.  It says:

“Why should we mourn or think our lot is hard? ‘Tis not so; all is right. Why should we think to earn a great reward If we now shun the fight? Gird up your loins; fresh courage take. Our God will never us forsake; And soon we’ll have this tale to tell – All is well! All is well!” I’ve always told my kids that life is hard – and it’s supposed to be! That is exactly what I read in that second verse! Don’t whine and think life is hard. It is! But it is supposed to be! We will never earn “a great reward” if we aren’t willing to work hard and fight for it. Adjust your attitude! Be strong! Know that God will never leave you alone! And no matter what, because of our Savior, “All is well!”

Instead of just being a day filled with parades, parties and fireworks, Pioneer Day is now a holy day and not just a holiday. It is a day to express how truly proud I am of my heritage and how thankful I am for ancestors who gave so much so I can have so much!

Freedom Through Forgiveness

It is inspiring to see how some people handle adversity. A couple of weeks ago, there was a senseless act of violence that occurred in a church in South Carolina. Nine people who had come to worship God were murdered by a very disturbed young man. He calculatingly killed people who he considered beneath him. What a horrible act of racism and bigotry! As horrible and horrific as that day was, the days that followed were miraculously filled with faith and forgiveness. I was brought to tears as I heard the family members express their forgiveness to the very person who had killed their loved ones. What an incredible lesson they taught all of us! Their love of God allowed them to forgive. The young man was emotionless to the feelings and words of these forgiving followers of Christ. Of course he was emotionless! He was full of hate! That is precisely what drove him to do what he did.  While it may be true that their offering of forgiveness did nothing for him, it definitely did do something for them! What these God-fearing people understand is that forgiveness frees from hate. Hatred had destroyed this young man, but it would not destroy them!

The picture quote comes from a talk given by President James E. Faust in the April 2007 LDS General Conference. His talk has several inspirational stories of forgiveness and is definitely worth reading. Here is the link to that talk. The common thread in each of the stories (and also in the recent event in South Carolina) is they are all religious people, whose love of God taught them to forgive. There is such an important place in our society for religious freedom! It is one of the freedoms I cherish most! In the April 2015 LDS General Conference, Elder Robert D. Hales gave four cornerstones of religious freedom that we must rely upon and protect. They are:

    – Freedom to believe

    – Freedom to share our faith and our beliefs with others

    – Freedom to form a religious organization, a church, to worship peacefully with others

    – Freedom to live our faith—free exercise of faith not just in the home and chapel but also in public places

Here is the link to his entire talk. 

July 4th is Saturday, a day we celebrate our nation’s freedom. We have seen far too much hatred in our society lately. While it is true we have different beliefs, backgrounds, hertiages and religions, we must be respectful of those differences if America is going to remain a truly free country. We must never forget this nation was founded “under God.” The tragedy in South Carolina reminds us that some people use their freedom for good and others use it for evil. Hopefully we all learned a lesson or two from those who used their freedom for good! As we will undoubtedly have many opportunities this weekend to see our beautiful flag, remember what it stands for! Let us have the courage to defend the freedoms that we hold so dear!

The Power & Blessing of Faith

Sometimes I wonder if we can comprehend the power of faith. I had a friend request that I do this quote for her. It is hard to explain the feelings I had while I was working on it. The first one I put a beautiful sunrise as the graphic. But I couldn’t deny the deeper feelings I was experiencing. I couldn’t help but think about what happened in the Sacred Grove. Joseph Smith, a young 14 year old boy went there to pray, having faith enough to know that if he asked his Heavenly Father a question, he would get an answer. And he did get an answer! Because of his faith and because he acted on the answer he received to his heartfelt inquiry, the world has been filled with the incredible light of the gospel!

I thought about my own faith and what it means to me. I thought of the times in my life when I have had to rely totally on faith—my faith! That faith is built on my Savior, Jesus Christ. Jesus is the Light of the world. It is our faith in Him that will give us the strength to emerge triumphant in times when we feel our world shattering around us. We all will experience feelings like that at least once in our life, perhaps even many times, because, honestly, that is part of life. Those are the refining moments in our lives. Those are the times we get to choose what becomes of us—whether we put our trust in Heavenly Father to shape and mold us into the person He wants us to be or whether we become bitter, angry or feel sorry for ourselves. While I can’t say that I have loved my trials, I can say I love what my trials have helped me become. I cannot say I have loved watching those I love go through their trials, but I love how they have come through them better and stronger than ever!

So I guess what this experience left me with was a bit of soul-searching. These are the questions I am pondering. Do I have the kind of faith that young Joseph had? Do I really know that Heavenly Father will answer my sincere prayers? Do I have enough faith in Him to trust how He answers my prayers? Alma 58:11 says: “Yea, and it came to pass that the Lord our God did visit us with assurances that he would deliver us; yea, insomuch that he did speak peace to our souls, and did grant unto us great faith, and did cause us that we should hope for our deliverance in him.” How grateful I am for the peace that comes from Him alone, for my faith and for my hope in Him!